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Removing the Guilt from Giving

<p><&excl;-- BEGIN THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;<div>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>I feel guilty sometimes about consulting Jenny before I make a charitable donation&period; Well&comma; a little scared too&comma; if I&&num;8217&semi;m honest&period; For instance&comma; it took the better part of a year before I got up enough courage to make a donation to <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;foodforthepoor&period;org&sol;">Food For The Poor<&sol;a>&period; A lack of faith and trust in God&comma; for sure&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<figure><img class&equals;"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2837" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;toddkmarsha&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2018&sol;05&sol;5056751407&lowbar;37a66e7921&period;jpg" alt&equals;"give without guilt" width&equals;"500" height&equals;"333"><&sol;figure><p><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In years prior&comma; I&&num;8217&semi;ve given to K-Love&comma; Air1 and FOCUS but nothing sustained&period; In 2014&comma; I made a donation to the local <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;toddkmarsha&period;com&sol;amp&sol;witnesspath&sol;tag&sol;catholic-radio-network&sol;">Catholic Radio Network<&sol;a>&period; I was listening semi-regularly and felt called to support their efforts to expand and improve&period; As 2015 began&comma; I&&num;8217&semi;d moved on from listening to the radio and started almost exclusively listening to podcasts&period; Leave it to my son to provide a great reminder about the importance of a successful local <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;toddkmarsha&period;com&sol;amp&sol;witnesspath&sol;tag&sol;catholic-2&sol;">Catholic<&sol;a> radio station&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;"><em>Give and it will be given to you&period; They will pour into your lap a good measure &&num;8211&semi; pressed down&comma; shaken together&comma; and running over&period; For by your standard of measure it will be measured to you in return&period;<&sol;em><&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;"><em>&&num;8211&semi; Luke 6&colon;38<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>A representative from the <a class&equals;"expresscurate&lowbar;contentTags" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;toddkmarsha&period;com&sol;amp&sol;witnesspath&sol;tag&sol;catholic-radio-network&sol;">&num;Catholic Radio Network<&sol;a> came to speak at <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;toddkmarsha&period;com&sol;amp&sol;witnesspath&sol;tag&sol;holy-trinity&sol;">Holy Trinity<&sol;a> recently&period; He was one of the better Mass speakers we&&num;8217&semi;d had&period; Despite that&comma; I dismissed what he&&num;8217&semi;d said almost immediately after Mass ended&period; Again&comma; I was reluctant to step out in faith and make a donation&period; Good thing his words made an impression on Jack&period; Jack went to Mom later that week and asked if she would make a donation&period; She was delighted to hear him think about others in such a way and agreed&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><strong>But First Seek His Kingdom and His Righteousness&&num;8230&semi;<&sol;strong><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>I was surprised by Jack&&num;8217&semi;s request&period; He&&num;8217&semi;s a good kid but he sometimes finds himself caught up in our <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;toddkmarsha&period;com&sol;amp&sol;witnesspath&sol;tag&sol;materialistic-culture&sol;">materialistic culture<&sol;a>&period; He talks often about the new Skylanders game&comma; the newest Lego set&comma; the latest kids movie&period; Money burns a hole in his pocket and our preaching to him to save a little&comma; give a little&comma; spend a little seems to fall on deaf ears&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He&&num;8217&semi;s 8 so it&&num;8217&semi;s to be expected&comma; I guess&period; But it&&num;8217&semi;s also a reminder of my role as a parent&period; I have to teach him that the most important thing in life is getting himself to heaven and taking as many people with him as he can&period; He won&&num;8217&semi;t get to heaven by longing for the newest&comma; biggest&comma; and greatest game or toy&period; He&&num;8217&semi;ll get there by longing for God&&num;8217&semi;s will to be done&period; He&&num;8217&semi;ll get there by giving of himself for the sake of others&period; He&&num;8217&semi;ll get there by resisting the good while waiting patiently for the great&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;"><em>But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness&comma; and all these things will be added to you&period;<&sol;em><&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;"><em>-Matthew 6&colon;33<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Sometimes I think&comma; &&num;8220&semi;How do I teach my son these lessons when I haven&&num;8217&semi;t learned them myself&quest;&&num;8221&semi; I&&num;8217&semi;ve made strides in rebelling against our <a class&equals;"expresscurate&lowbar;contentTags" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;toddkmarsha&period;com&sol;amp&sol;witnesspath&sol;tag&sol;materialistic-culture&sol;">&num;materialistic culture<&sol;a> but I still fall victim to scarcity thinking&period; My faith in God&&num;8217&semi;s desire to shower me with his <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;toddkmarsha&period;com&sol;amp&sol;witnesspath&sol;tag&sol;abundance&sol;">abundance<&sol;a> isn&&num;8217&semi;t quite where it should be&period; I take a year before discussing a gift with my wife&comma; but my son has no fear and asks only a couple days later&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>This is the devil&&num;8217&semi;s work within me&comma; no doubt&period; Wanting me to think I&&num;8217&semi;m not worthy to teach my son because of my own failures&period; I&&num;8217&semi;ve been told countless times that we all learn better when we immediately teach what we&&num;8217&semi;ve learned&period;&nbsp&semi; I&&num;8217&semi;ve even done this successfully in venues like <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;toddkmarsha&period;com&sol;amp&sol;witnesspath&sol;tag&sol;christ-renews-his-parish&sol;">Christ Renews His Parish<&sol;a>&period; Devil&comma; back away&period; It&&num;8217&semi;s time for this father to do God&&num;8217&semi;s work&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Thank you <a class&equals;"expresscurate&lowbar;contentTags" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;toddkmarsha&period;com&sol;amp&sol;witnesspath&sol;tag&sol;catholic-2&sol;">&num;Catholic<&sol;a> Radio Network for bringing the gospel to <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;toddkmarsha&period;com&sol;amp&sol;witnesspath&sol;tag&sol;kansas-city&sol;">Kansas City<&sol;a> day and night in English and Spanish and reminding this father of his role in his son&&num;8217&semi;s faith formation&period; To learn more about the Catholic Radio Network&comma; visit <a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;thecatholicradionetwork&period;com">their site<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p><&excl;-- END THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>

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