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Sunday Mass at College: A Crossroads Moment for Maturing Men and Women

The Supernatural Role of a Catholic Campus

<p><&excl;-- BEGIN THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p> <br &sol;>&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<div data-cy&equals;"articleBody">&NewLine;<p>The first Sunday of college doesn’t come with much fanfare&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>After orientation events&comma; late-night conversations&comma; and the excitement of finally unpacking the dorm room&comma; Sunday morning arrives quietly&period; The alarm goes off&period; No one knocks on the bedroom door&period; No parent offers the reminder it’s time to leave&period; No family piles into the car&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>For the first time&comma; the decision to attend Mass belongs entirely to the student&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>For many Catholic students&comma; this can be a crossroads moment&comma; one that marks the first significant step toward developing a personal&comma; conscious&comma; adult faith or the beginning of a journey down a different path&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>For Serena Keller&comma; 21&comma; who attends Christendom College in Front Royal&comma; Virginia&comma; that first Sunday affirmed her own commitment rather than her parents’ encouragement&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;The first Sunday I chose to go to Mass without my parents was at the beginning of my freshman year of college&comma;” Keller recalled&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I think that choice really showed me that my faith is my own responsibility to cultivate&period; Throughout my college life&comma; going to Mass and deepening my faith has impacted me in so many ways&comma; helping me grow in discipline&comma; keeping me accountable&comma; and giving guidance and direction to every area of my life&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Like Keller&comma; other students found that anchor during an otherwise uncertain season&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Kristen Witt&comma; 22&comma; who graduated from William &amp&semi; Mary College in Williamsburg&comma; Virginia&comma; first attended Mass on her own during move-in weekend&period; Until then&comma; Sunday Mass attendance had always been something she experienced alongside her family&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Although excited to begin college&comma; she admitted she was also anxious&period; Mass became her reminder that God was present in her life&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I kept going to Mass on my own because I knew that even though so much of my life was changing&comma; God was present&comma; steady and there for me&period; Looking back&comma; going to church on my own became a big step of independence and a place of comfort and consistency in a season of so much change&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><b>&OpenCurlyQuote;I Just Felt God There With Me’<&sol;b><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Not every student’s first Sunday follows that same script&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>By the time Cammy Cort&comma; 22&comma; arrived at the University of Maryland&comma; a gradual drift from the faith that had begun during high school continued into college&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Sunday Mass had already become increasingly optional during high school because of sports&comma; and her faith had begun to fade&period; When that first Sunday of college arrived&comma; attending Mass wasn’t even on her mind&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Everything changed midway through freshman year&comma; when she decided to return&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I was absolutely terrified&comma;” Cort recalled&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I didn’t know where it was&period; I went alone&period; I was running late&period; It was an 8 p&period;m&period; Mass&comma; so I was walking across campus in the dark&period; I was anxious and worried people would judge me&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Instead&comma; she remembers walking into the chapel and immediately feeling something different&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I was just hit by the warmth of the chapel&comma; the Mass and the worship that was happening&comma;” she said&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I just felt God there with me&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Even after returning&comma; Cort said fear of what others might think didn’t disappear overnight&period; She quietly attended Mass and Bible studies for months before telling many of her friends&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Looking back&comma; she wishes she had viewed Sunday Mass differently sooner&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;It’s something you need&comma;” she said&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;It’s something that helps you grow in your relationship with Christ&period; There’s so much peace to be found when you actually get yourself to Mass&comma; as well as the community that’s around it&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><b>Newman Center<&sol;b><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>That community became a reality through Maryland’s Newman Center&period; Seeing other college students openly living their faith gave Cort the confidence to deepen her own prayer life&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Seeing other college students be so involved and in love with the faith and with prayer&comma;” she said&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;gave me the validation&comma; opportunity and encouragement to grow that part of my life&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Today&comma; she no longer sees Sunday Mass as something to check off a list&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I see it as a privilege to receive the Eucharist and to be in communion with Christ and with the Church&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Anthony Pegis&comma; 21&comma; who also attends Christendom College&comma; doesn’t remember his first independent Mass&comma; but he vividly remembers realizing that everyone filling the college chapel had made the same decision&period; Looking around at nearly 500 students&comma; he recognized that they were no longer attending because their parents expected it — they were there by choice&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>That realization has remained with him&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;The beauty of the transition of responsibility is something that has stuck with me&comma;” Pegis said&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;The Mass and the faith will always be there for you&comma; but you will always have to make that personal decision to come every Sunday&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He says that decision became one of the most stabilizing parts of his college years&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>For incoming freshmen nervous about walking into Mass alone&comma; Mark Hart&comma; chief innovation officer for Life Teen with more than three decades in youth ministry and a father whose own children have gone away to college&comma; offered reassurance&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He recalled how one of his daughters arrived on campus knowing no one who shared her faith&period; After connecting with the campus Newman Center&comma; she found friends who attended Bible studies&comma; Eucharistic adoration and Mass together&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;She found her people&comma;” Hart said&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;She found lifelong friends&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Go to Mass that first Sunday&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;You have an opportunity now to show who you really are and whose you really are&comma;” he said&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;You have an opportunity now to become the man or woman God designed you to be&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>Katherine Matt worked as a <&sol;i><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;ewtnnews&period;com&sol;author&sol;katherine-matt"><i>summer news intern for EWTN News English <&sol;i><&sol;a> <i>during summer 2026&period;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<p><br &sol;>&NewLine;<br &sol;><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;ncregister&period;com&sol;features&sol;sunday-mass-at-college">Source link <&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><&excl;-- END THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;

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