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A Monk’s Method for Falling Asleep Fast

A Monk's Method for Falling Asleep Fast

<p><&excl;-- BEGIN THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p> <br &sol;>&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<div>&NewLine;<p>Thomas Merton was a Trappist monk&comma; writer&comma; and one of the most influential spiritual voices of the 20th century — a man preoccupied with solitude&comma; silence&comma; and the demands of the inner life&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He’s best known for his spiritual autobiography&comma; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;amzn&period;to&sol;4sm4l0Q"><em>The Seven Storey Mountain<&sol;em><&sol;a>&comma; which traces his restless youth and eventual conversion to Catholicism&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>As I mentioned in last week’s Odds and Ends&comma; I recently re-read this book and enjoyed it&period; It’s full of interesting spiritual insights&period; But I also picked up something else Merton mentioned&colon; a simple&comma; practical trick for falling asleep&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3 id&equals;"h&period;u4v9kwbh5b8e">Thomas Merton’s Trick for Falling Asleep When You Can’t Fall Asleep<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Merton discovered the technique during his undergraduate years at Columbia University in the mid-1930s&period; He was doing what a lot of college students do&colon; trying to find himself&period; He dabbled in Marxism and jazz&period; He also read hundreds of texts on what he loosely called &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Oriental mysticism&comma;” or what we now call Eastern philosophy&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>While Merton came to regard most of this phase as shallow and misguided&comma; one thing he got out of it stuck with him for the rest of his life&colon; a trick to fall asleep when you can’t fall asleep&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In <em>The Seven Storey Mountain<&sol;em>&comma; Merton describes the process thusly&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote>&NewLine;<p>You lie flat in bed&comma; without a pillow&comma; your arms at your sides&comma; and your legs straight out&comma; and relax all your muscles&comma; and say to yourself&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyQuote;Now I have no feet&comma; now I have no feet &period; &period; &period; no legs &period; &period; &period; no knees&period;’<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>Basically&comma; you imagine your body disappearing&comma; beginning with your feet and slowly working your way up&period; You imagine each of your body parts &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;changed into air and vanished away” — shins&comma; knees&comma; thighs&comma; hips&comma; abdomen&comma; arms&comma; hands&comma; shoulders&comma; repeating the absence of each part to yourself until it genuinely feels &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;gone&period;” You keep moving up your body until you drift off to sleep&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Merton noted that this technique usually worked for him&comma; unless he hadn’t fallen asleep by the time he got to his head&semi; when that happened&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Instantly&comma; chest and stomach and legs and feet all came back to life with most exasperating reality&period;” Fortunately&comma; he’d typically be conked out by the time he made his torso &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;disappear&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3 id&equals;"h&period;cydlu8ez6li7">Why Imagining Your Body Disappearing Can Help You Fall Asleep<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Merton theorized the technique worked because it was a type of auto-suggestion or just plain old muscle relaxation&period; When you’re nice and relaxed&comma; you usually fall asleep&period; He wasn’t wrong&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;artofmanliness&period;com&sol;health-fitness&sol;health&sol;get-better-sleep&sol;">Most insomnia isn’t a body problem&period; It’s a brain problem<&sol;a>&period; Your mind latches onto something &lpar;like a work email&comma; a conversation that went poorly&comma; whatever&rpar; and starts chewing on it&period; The harder you try to stop ruminating&comma; the louder the mental chatter gets&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Merton’s technique solves this with a kind of cognitive sleight of hand&period; It gives your brain something specific and repetitive to do&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I have no feet&period; No feet&period; No legs&period;” The task is engaging enough to occupy the part of your mind that wants to spin out&comma; but boring enough not to fire you up&period; You’re crowding out the rumination without replacing it with anything that requires actual thinking&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>There are a couple of variations on Merton’s technique that you can also try&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I’ve long done a version of this method that comes at it from a related but opposite angle&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>When I was a kid&comma; I watched a show called <em>Under the Umbrella Tree<&sol;em>&period; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;youtube&period;com&sol;watch&quest;v&equals;ponpdB2gAAM">One episode featured Gloria the Gopher having problems falling asleep<&sol;a>&period; Her solution&colon; she went through her body parts one by one&comma; saying goodnight to each of them&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Time to go to sleep&comma; leg&period; You’re getting heavier and heavier&period;” It made an impression on me and I started doing it&comma; and I’ve been using this trick ever since&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I find imagining that each of my body parts is getting heavier and heavier easier to conceptualize than imagining that each part is disappearing&period; Though I’ve had the same experience as Merton&colon; while I usually drift off to sleep by the time I get to my torso&comma; if I reach my head&comma; whatever relaxation I achieved instantly reverses and I’m wide awake&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;artofmanliness&period;com&sol;health-fitness&sol;health&sol;fall-asleep-fast&sol;">You can also try the method that was taught to Naval aviators during WWII<&sol;a>&comma; which might solve the problem Merton and I have encountered&period; With this technique&comma; you imagine each of your body parts going absolutely lax and limp&comma; starting with your head instead of your feet&semi; you first relax your scalp&comma; forehead&comma; jaw&comma; and even your tongue&comma; lips&comma; and eyes&comma; before you start moving <em>down<&sol;em> your body&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>All of these approaches get you to the same sleep-inducing place&colon; a relaxed body and mind&period; Experiment and see which one works for you&semi; you’ll be sleeping with the beatific stillness of a monk in no time&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<p><br &sol;>&NewLine;<br &sol;><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;artofmanliness&period;com&sol;health-fitness&sol;health&sol;a-monk-s-method-for-falling-asleep-fast&sol;">Source link <&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><&excl;-- END THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;

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