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When Success Comes at a Cost — Talkspace

When Success Comes at a Cost — Talkspace

<p><&excl;-- BEGIN THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p> <br &sol;>&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<div>&NewLine;<p>Looking like you have everything together doesn’t mean you aren’t exhausted&comma; overwhelmed&comma; or disconnected&period; Even if you’re excelling at work&comma; managing obligations and expectations&comma; and keeping up with your routines&comma; you might still be burned out&period; High-functioning burnout is a hidden struggle that allows many successful people to excel while quietly feeling depleted on the inside&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Recognizing the signs will help you understand why it’s happening and how you can make positive changes to your life&period; Keep reading to learn the symptoms&comma; causes&comma; and how to recover from high-functioning burnout&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>What Is High-Functioning Burnout&quest;<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>High-functioning burnout is a type of chronic stress where you can still find success and be productive while hiding profound internal exhaustion&period; Unlike typical burnout&comma; where performance drops&comma; high-functioning burnout means you can still meet demands and do well at your job—but it comes at a significant cost to your overall well-being&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Even if you’re hitting goals&comma; meeting deadlines&comma; and managing responsibilities successfully&comma; your drive is likely fueled by stress rather than motivation&period; This type of burnout is exceptionally challenging because other people only see your achievements instead of the strain you’re experiencing&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote class&equals;"wp-block-quote">&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;High functioning burnout can go unnoticed at times because a person is still able to function on a daily basis and take care of responsibilities&period; It is possible that this is also accompanied by chronic stress&comma; physical fatigue&comma; and emotional exhaustion&period; But because there are no &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;visible” consequences of this internal experience it is hard for the individual to recognize that they are burnt out&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><cite>– <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;talkspace&period;com&sol;mental-health&sol;conditions&sol;author&sol;bisma-anwar&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noreferrer noopener">Talkspace therapist&comma; Bisma Anwar&comma; LPC&comma; LMHC <&sol;a><&sol;cite><&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<h2>Signs and Symptoms of High-Functioning Burnout<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Several emotional&comma; physical&comma; and behavioral signs have been linked to high-functioning burnout&period; According to <a target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pmc&period;ncbi&period;nlm&period;nih&period;gov&sol;articles&sol;PMC5627926&sol;">research<&sol;a>&comma; burnout means you’re more likely to experience sleep disturbances&period; You’re also at a higher risk for physical and mental health complications&comma; including cardiovascular disease&comma; gastrointestinal issues&comma; and depression&period; Over time&comma; burnout can even lead to increased rates of absenteeism and job dissatisfaction&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Emotional and mental signs<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><a target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;talkspace&period;com&sol;blog&sol;emotional-exhaustion&sol;">Emotional exhaustion<&sol;a> doesn’t always have obvious signs&comma; but this and other symptoms are common indicators that you might be heading toward high-functioning burnout&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Other emotional and mental signs of high-functioning burnout might include&colon;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<ul>&NewLine;<li>Feeling emotionally numb <&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Becoming detached from things you once cared about<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Carrying a heavy weight that steals the joy from your life<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Experiencing persistent anxiety even though you’re achieving<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Finding it hard to celebrate success because you have an ongoing fear about what’s next<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Being unable to find joy in work or activities you once found rewarding<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Feeling hollow or dispassionate<&sol;li>&NewLine;<&sol;ul>&NewLine;<h3>Physical signs<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>High-functioning burnout means never feeling fully recharged&period; Your body is constantly tense&comma; and you often feel worn out&period; This is because the cost of pushing through is catching up to you physically&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Physical signs of <&sol;strong><strong>high-functioning burnout<&sol;strong><strong> might include&colon;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<ul>&NewLine;<li>No amount of rest makes the fatigue go away<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>You’re constantly feeling drained and depleted<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>You have frequent headaches&comma; muscle pain&comma; or digestive issues<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>You experience insomnia&comma; restless nights&comma; and other sleep disruptions<&sol;li>&NewLine;<&sol;ul>&NewLine;<h3>Behavioral signs<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Behavioral signs are also common when you’re in a state of high-functioning burnout&period; Saying yes to everything&comma; constantly pushing yourself to get the job done no matter what&comma; or depending on caffeine to get you through your days are habits that might indicate high-functioning <a target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;talkspace&period;com&sol;blog&sol;burnout-symptoms&sol;">burnout symptoms<&sol;a>&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Other behavioral signs of <&sol;strong><strong>high-functioning burnout<&sol;strong><strong> might include&colon;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<ul>&NewLine;<li>You overwork yourself in an attempt to feel a sense of self-worth<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Your desire for control pushes you beyond healthy limits<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>You set impossible boundaries&comma; like saying yes when you want to say no<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>It’s difficult for you to step back from obligations<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>You rely heavily on caffeine&comma; alcohol&comma; or other stimulants to keep you going<&sol;li>&NewLine;<&sol;ul>&NewLine;<blockquote class&equals;"wp-block-quote">&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Burnout symptoms that can get overlooked in early burnout include irritability&comma; detachment from work and relationships&comma; and emotional reactivity&period; People may also experience difficulty concentrating&comma; anxiety&comma; or sleep disturbances&comma; which might be dismissed as normal stress&period; These signs can be ignored until exhaustion becomes overwhelming and affects their overall functioning&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><cite>– <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;talkspace&period;com&sol;mental-health&sol;conditions&sol;author&sol;bisma-anwar&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noreferrer noopener">Talkspace therapist&comma; Bisma Anwar&comma; LPC&comma; LMHC <&sol;a><&sol;cite><&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<h2>Why High-Functioning Burnout Happens<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Several factors come into play when examining why high-functioning burnout occurs&period; Feeling driven to do everything&comma; all the time&comma; is unsustainable&period; You work hard and deliver results&comma; yet you’re often overwhelmed&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>It’s easy to blame yourself for not knowing how to manage stress&comma; but it’s not your fault&period; The reality is that burnout sneaks in when you combine personal drive with external pressures&period; Unmanageable workloads&comma; lack of boundaries&comma; and unrealistic expectations &lpar;both internal and external&rpar; can all contribute&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Perfectionism and pressure to perform<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>If you’re the type of person who always needs to do more&comma; striving for those perfect results when you’re exhausted puts extra pressure on yourself&period; It may not always be noticeable to others&comma; but perfectionism can make it challenging to slow down or admit that you need help&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Cultural and workplace norms<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>We live in a busy society&comma; where expectations can be both unreasonable and unhealthy&period; When constant productivity is celebrated in your work environment&comma; it becomes easy to internalize the idea that there’s no good time to rest&comma; resulting in <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;talkspace&period;com&sol;blog&sol;corporate-burnout&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noreferrer noopener">corporate burnout<&sol;a>&period; If your workplace rewards long hours and expects you to always be available&comma; feeding into what’s known as &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;<a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;talkspace&period;com&sol;blog&sol;hustle-culture&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">hustle culture<&sol;a>&comma;” they might be unknowingly pushing you toward high-functioning burnout&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Lack of restorative outlets<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Neglecting self care&comma; hobbies&comma; exercise&comma; or downtime allows your professional persona to take center stage&comma; forcing your mental health to take a back seat&period; Losing these types of restorative outlets makes stress management more difficult and robs you of a healthy <a target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;talkspace&period;com&sol;blog&sol;work-life-balance&sol;">work-life balance<&sol;a>&period; Be aware of a shrinking social circle because you’re always prioritizing work over everything else&period;  <&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>The Hidden Costs of High-Functioning Burnout<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>When you’re burned out&comma; you’re <a target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;apa&period;org&sol;topics&sol;healthy-workplaces&sol;workplace-burnout">more likely<&sol;a> to make mistakes&period; Burnout damages innovation&comma; productivity&comma; and engagement&period; The impact is staggering—some <a target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;gallup&period;com&sol;workplace&sol;349484&sol;state-of-the-global-workplace&period;aspx">research estimates<&sol;a> that low engagement &lpar;a hallmark sign of burnout&rpar; costs the global economy nearly &dollar;9 trillion per year&period; Even though you <em>seem <&sol;em>productive and successful&comma; you may not be truly thriving—at work or in life&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Mental health challenges <&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Burnout does more than just make you tired&period; Chronic stress increases your risk for mental health challenges like anxiety and depression&period; It changes how you feel about yourself and the world around you&period; In <a target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pmc&period;ncbi&period;nlm&period;nih&period;gov&sol;articles&sol;PMC3156844&sol;">studies<&sol;a>&comma; severe burnout increased the risk of <a target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;talkspace&period;com&sol;mental-health&sol;conditions&sol;articles&sol;major-depressive-disorder-symptoms&sol;">major depressive disorder<&sol;a> &lpar;MDD&rpar; by 15 times&period; <a target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pmc&period;ncbi&period;nlm&period;nih&period;gov&sol;articles&sol;PMC5137920&sol;">Research shows<&sol;a> it can change how your brain communicates with your body&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>There are also known physical challenges related to burnout&period; According to <a target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pmc&period;ncbi&period;nlm&period;nih&period;gov&sol;articles&sol;PMC3156844&sol;">research<&sol;a>&comma; it’s associated with increased flu-like symptoms and gastrointestinal issues&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Relationship impact <&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Experiencing high-functioning burnout can take a toll on your relationships&period; It can cause <a target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;talkspace&period;com&sol;blog&sol;emotional-distance&sol;">emotional distance<&sol;a> between you and your romantic partner&comma; friends&comma; and family&period; You might find that you’re more irritable and frustrated&comma; or that you push people away&comma; even if you don’t really want to be isolated&period; Burnout creates barriers that are hard to cross&comma; but acknowledging its impact on your life is the first step toward healing&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>How to Recover from High-Functioning Burnout<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>The good news is that recovering from high-functioning burnout is possible&period; Healing can take time&comma; so remember that even small steps&comma; like setting boundaries and being honest with yourself about what you need&comma; can help you achieve the outcome you want&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Acknowledge the problem<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>It’s crucial to recognize that feelings of exhaustion and overwhelm are valid&period; Performance doesn’t equal well-being&comma; and it takes courage to admit you need help&period; Acknowledging that you’re struggling <em>doesn’t <&sol;em>mean you’re failing&period; It opens the door to finding support so you can heal&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Set boundaries with work and commitments<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Setting boundaries and limits can feel impossible when you’re used to going the extra mile and fear putting yourself first&period; Protecting your time and energy is essential&comma; though&period; By creating firm boundaries&comma; you can learn to say no and redefine your relationship with productivity&period; Boundaries are an effective way to reduce your risk of burnout&period; For a simple way to start&comma; establish clear and firm start and stop times for your days&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Prioritize rest and self care<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Stop looking at rest and self-care as a luxury&period; These are necessities that will help you restore your energy and reestablish your emotional and physical well-being&period; Whether you prioritize sleep&comma; nourishing meals&comma; or regular physical activity&comma; even the slightest change can help you start to feel like yourself again&period; Don’t underestimate the power of meditation and mindfulness techniques to help you reconnect with your needs and find balance in your life&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Reconnect with joy and purpose<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Finding joy and purpose outside of achievement might feel unfamiliar at first&comma; but it’s an important step in your recovery process&period; Try new hobbies and work on rebuilding social connections you’ve lost&period; Remember that life is about more than just work and that your achievements don’t define you&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Seek professional help<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Therapy can be crucial in helping you identify unhealthy and unhelpful patterns you’ve developed&period; It’s also a place where you can find tools that will help you cope as you learn to manage your burnout&period; Online therapy from Talkspace makes the process easy&comma; with accessible and convenient options so you don’t have to face recovery alone&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Moving Forward with Balance<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>No matter how overwhelmed you feel right now&comma; it’s never too late to heal from high-functioning burnout&period; Small but consistent changes can yield big rewards&period; Your success in life doesn’t have to come at the cost of your mental or physical health&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>As you learn to prioritize your well-being&comma; you’ll find ways to create space for achievement and joy&period; Explore Talkspace <a data-wpil&equals;"url" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;talkspace&period;com&sol;online-therapy&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">online therapy<&sol;a> and mental health tools to help you conquer burnout&comma; work through fallout like depression and anxiety&comma; and restore the life and relationships you’ve worked so hard to build&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>Sources&colon;<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<p><br &sol;>&NewLine;<br &sol;><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;talkspace&period;com&sol;blog&sol;high-functioning-burnout&sol;">Source link <&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><&excl;-- END THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;

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