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‘Sifting Sand’

<p><&excl;-- BEGIN THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p> <br &sol;>&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<div>&NewLine;<p>COMMENTARY&colon; A simple afternoon of sifting sand becomes a reflection on how sin slips quietly into the soul — and how grace restores what was lost&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;p><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>&NewLine;<p>Sixteen years ago&comma; when our first grandchild was a toddler&comma; I set up a sandbox in our backyard so that visits to our house could include the simple joy of digging&comma; pouring and play&period; Over the years&comma; eight more grandchildren have delighted in constructing sandcastles&comma; burying &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;treasures” and slipping their fingers and toes into the soft&comma; shifting grains&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Digging In<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>On a recent&comma; unusually warm winter day&comma; I suggested to my youngest grandchild&comma; Joseph&comma; that we clean out the debris that had gathered in the sandbox&period; We each grabbed a mesh sieve and went out to the backyard&comma; where I removed the sandbox cover and the assorted toys scattered within&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>With plastic shovels in hand&comma; we scooped up mounds of sand littered with dried leaves and twigs&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We shook and sifted the sand&comma; watching the fine grains drift back into the box until only debris remained in the sieves&period; The trash was then emptied into sand buckets&comma; ready to be taken to the garbage bin&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Sifting for Splendor<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>As I watched the sand transform from a jumble of leaves and twigs back to its pristine state&comma; I couldn’t help but think of the Sacrament of Reconciliation&period; The sand became a symbol of the soul&comma; while the debris that marred its beauty represented sins&period; Through the gentle process of sifting&comma; the sand regained the splendor it was meant to have — just as the grace of Reconciliation restores us to the purity we first received at baptism&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Tiny Gaps&comma; Big Lessons<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Partway through our chore&comma; Joseph asked&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Grandma&comma; why didn’t you just keep the lid on the sandbox&quest;” He had seen me remove it&comma; but perhaps he thought it hadn’t been in place all winter&period; And he had a point — the lid <i>had<&sol;i> been on&period; Yet somehow&comma; through the tiny cracks where the top met the base&comma; leaves and twigs had crept in&period; Just like sin&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Isn’t that exactly how life works&quest; We may think we’re shielding our hearts&comma; but sin seeps in through the tiniest gaps&period; We linger around people who pull us in the wrong direction&period; We get caught up in books&comma; movies or television shows that glorify morally dubious behavior&period; Our patience frays&comma; our words spill carelessly&comma; and our passions run unchecked&period; Just as a sandbox needs careful sifting to restore its purity&comma; our souls need mindfulness&comma; reflection and the grace of God to keep them whole&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Anchored in Grace<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>With our work complete&comma; I replaced the top of the sandbox&comma; anchoring it down with a few bricks&period; My hope is that the sand will remain unspoiled until the next time a grandchild wants to play there&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>This week&comma; I will receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation&comma; echoing King David’s prayer&colon; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Create in me a clean heart&comma; O God&comma; and renew a right spirit within me” &lpar;Psalm 51&colon;10&rpar;&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Just as the sand was restored and protected&comma; Reconciliation renews and safeguards the soul&comma; preparing the heart for a life of joy&comma; love and service in the days to come&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>And I have a sun-filled afternoon with a preschooler to thank for setting me on the right path&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;p><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p><br &sol;>&NewLine;<br &sol;><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;ncregister&period;com&sol;commentaries&sol;mcadam-sifting-sin">Source link <&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><&excl;-- END THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;

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