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This Religious Sister Confronts Suicide in Bangladesh| National Catholic Register

Sister Lipy Gloria Rozario, of the Our Lady of Sorrows religious order and a counseling psychologist, is founder and director of the Healing Heart Counseling Unit based in Dhaka, Bangladesh.

<p><&excl;-- BEGIN THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p> <br &sol;>&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<div>&NewLine;<p><b>Sister Lipy Gloria Rozario<&sol;b> has been on the front lines against Bangladesh’s rising suicide crisis&comma; offering psychological counseling services in the Muslim-majority nation since 2010 as founder and director of the Healing Heart Counseling Unit &lpar;HHCU&rpar;&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Sister Lipy Gloria<b> <&sol;b>was born in 1971 during Bangladesh’s war of independence with Pakistan&period; She joined the sisters of Our Lady of Sorrows in Italy&comma; taking her final vows in 2001&period; She holds a bachelor’s degree from Rome’s Libera Università Maria Santissima Assunta and a double master’s degree in spirituality and counseling from Santa Clara University in California&period; The first person in her country to hold a Ph&period;D&period; in counseling&comma; which she received from Dhaka University in Bangladesh&comma; she is currently an adjunct faculty member of Dhaka University’s Department of Educational and Counseling Psychology&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Sister Lipy Gloria<b> <&sol;b>provides training related to professional counseling at HHCU for NGOs and religious organizations&period; She specializes in building awareness in the country through social media and school seminars&comma; believing it is possible to prevent suicide through mental-health support&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The religious sister&comma; who is not related to Register correspondent Stephan Uttom Rozario&comma; recently spoke with the Register about suicide prevention and Pope Leo’s call to pray for those living in darkness and despair&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>What is the significance of Pope Leo’s <&sol;i><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;ncregister&period;com&sol;cna&sol;november-2025-papal-prayer-intention"><i>recent call to prayer for the prevention of suicide<&sol;i><&sol;a><i>&quest; <&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In November&comma; we remember the dead and think about our deaths&comma; so that we can walk on the right path&comma; on the path shown by Jesus&period; For example&comma; how aware am I of my neighbor or their mental status&comma; and what can I do to help&quest; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>It is our responsibility to see how our neighbors are and know what they are doing&period; People commit suicide when they have no other options&period;  We should talk to them and try to show them the right path&period; It is important that we be kind to each other and forgive others&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>What is the situation of suicide like in Bangladesh&quest;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>There is no new research on suicide in Bangladesh&period; However&comma; I have learned through the newspaper that 54 people commit suicide every day in Bangladesh&period; Recently&comma; 62 suicides were reported in the city of Gazipur district&comma; near the capital&comma; Dhaka&comma; in October&period; But the number of suicides in the entire district is unknown&period; The police say that most of these 62 suicides were committed due to family conflicts and financial problems&period; While the suicide rate is decreasing in the world&comma; it is increasing in Bangladesh&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>What are the main motives for suicide&quest;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Suicide among university students is very high&period; They do not have the financial solvency required for their studies or know what they will do for work after completing their studies&comma; and they get depressed and commit suicide&period; They also tend to commit suicide due to their love and relationships&comma; especially due to breakups&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Many people have financial and family problems&comma; which create depression&comma; and they choose the path of suicide&period; They can’t see the point of living in suffering so much&period; For example&comma; one of my clients was saying&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I do not see one reason for my survival&period;” This is alarming for us&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We definitely need research because without research the real picture cannot be obtained&period; Then people will understand those who are suicidal and talk to them&comma; inform their family&comma; stand by them&comma; or take them to treatment&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>Is suicide common in the Christian community&quest;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Yes&comma; I have seen many cases in my area&comma; despite a lot of religious formation&period; We have to be more aware and talk about the three aspects of body&comma; mind and spirituality&period; Leaving out the mind and the body is not possible&period; We also have to work on our mental health from a spiritual perspective&comma; in a holistic way&period; Our Church needs to bring this mental-health component into our discussions&period; We need more in-depth work and to learn from trained people&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>Why did you become interested in working with this counseling ministry&quest;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I saw people who were victims of mental abuse and physical abuse&comma; as well&period; I thought about how to save people from this&comma; and I saw that studying psychology could be the way&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The Gospel of St&period; Mark attracted me the most because it talked about many miraculous works&comma; such as healing the sick&period; I am not a doctor&comma; but I am interested in how to heal the sick&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>What work are you doing now&quest;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>From the very beginning&comma; I have felt the lack of skilled manpower in the field of counseling&period; And so&comma; we arrange training at our center&period; Those who have degrees in psychology from various universities come here and gain practical experience&period; Those who plan to work in mental health come here and receive training&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Some trainings are open to all&comma; where teachers&comma; NGO workers or others participate&period; Training is my main focus&period; Rather than spending a lot of time healing one patient at a time&comma; it is more effective to train others who will heal many patients&period; I also work directly with clients two days a week&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>What kinds of initiatives can be taken at the government or private level to prevent suicide&quest;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The government of Bangladesh has not taken any initiative and has no budget for mental health&period; So people are working on it in a private setting&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The work we are doing is not recognized by any kind of government &lbrack;entity&rsqb;&comma; and we do not have a license&period; It is clear how backward we are due to how much we are neglecting the issue of mental health&period; For example&comma; just as doctors or nurses have licenses&comma; those who work with mental health also need to have licenses&period; When we tell them&comma; the government remains silent&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i> <&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>How do you care for a client who is at risk of suicide&quest;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>You have to listen carefully to the person&period; At the same time&comma; understand or find out the reason why they want to commit suicide&period; Their feelings are valid&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We sign an agreement with them&comma; a form that says that everything they say will be confidential&period; Only if they have suicidal tendencies do we discuss it with their family&period; Then we make the family aware of how to keep them safe&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>How much awareness is there about suicide and mental health in our Catholic society&quest;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I recently talked to a parish priest about whether it is possible to talk about mental health with everyone after Mass on Sunday&period; He did not show much interest&period; I think we need to do awareness work&period; Because we have to love our neighbors as we are&period; But if we are not good ourselves&comma; how can we love others&quest; So we need to bring these issues to the discussion in our Church&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We see the opposite&comma; for example&comma; when we want to talk about suicide in school&period; The teachers say that if we talk about suicide&comma; the students will be more inclined towards it&period; Our thoughts do not match the thoughts of these teachers&period; There is a big mistake in our mentality here&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>How can we end suicide&quest;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I know about 25 to 30 priests and religious sisters who have studied psychology abroad&period; But I don&&num;8217&semi;t know why they don&&num;8217&semi;t work with people or why they have kept their training to themselves&period; We have to come forward together&period; This initiative has to start at the Church level&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The health commission of the Catholic Bishops’ Conference of Bangladesh should be included here&period; But they have not accepted it either&period; There is a problem here&comma; a lack of knowledge&period; This coordinated initiative has to come from above&period; I am trying&comma; but they must take the initiative&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>Suicide is contrary to the dignity of life&comma; as the Catechism of the  Catholic Church <&sol;i><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;docs&period;wixstatic&period;com&sol;ugd&sol;292271&lowbar;6a6cf4481be64b388dc3459a914ed595&period;pdf"><i>explains<&sol;i><&sol;a><i>&comma; but help and hope are available&period; If you or someone you know needs help immediately&comma; call or text 988&semi; Catholic resources may be found <&sol;i><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;usccb&period;org&sol;mentalhealth"><i>here<&sol;i><&sol;a><i>&period;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><i>Editor’s Note&colon; This interview has been edited for length and clarity&period; Stephan Uttom Rozario is a journalist and photographer based in Dhaka&comma; Bangladesh&period;<&sol;i><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;p><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p><br &sol;>&NewLine;<br &sol;><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;ncregister&period;com&sol;interview&sol;this-religious-sister-confronts-suicide-in-bangladesh">Source link <&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><&excl;-- END THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;

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