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<p><span style="font-weight: 400">I’m lucky: I know where my husband is when he’s deployed, and I know how long he’ll be gone. I get to talk to him during deployment, and I can settle into a routine of communication and home life. Many military spouses don’t have such luxuries. But we all know what it’s like to hold things down on the home front on our own. And for those of us with jobs and kids, juggling all our responsibilities gets a lot more complicated. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400">Similar to many women, especially with small children, many military wives I know don’t work. They know their spouse will be gone for months at a time, and it doesn’t make sense for their family. But for the </span><a href="https://www.dol.gov/sites/dolgov/files/VETS/files/Military-Spouses-Fact-Sheet-2024-12-13.pdf"><span style="font-weight: 400">64%</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> of us who do work, the juggling gets a bit more wobbly when we’re acting as single parents. Personally, I could never do it without flexible work. </span></p>
<p><a href="https://www.dol.gov/sites/dolgov/files/VETS/files/Military-Spouses-Fact-Sheet-2024-12-13.pdf"><span style="font-weight: 400">Over a third</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> of active duty families have children. When we had our first child, I fully expected to be forced out of the workforce, choosing my family life over my work. But Independent Women is a fully remote workplace, which allows employees greater flexibility to balance work and other responsibilities. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400">Many brave women serve our country in the military. But it is a male-dominated profession, and the fact that </span><a href="https://www.dol.gov/sites/dolgov/files/VETS/files/Military-Spouses-Fact-Sheet-2024-12-13.pdf"><span style="font-weight: 400">90% of military spouses are women</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> reflects that. For so many other moms, even outside military life, remote work is a lifeline, allowing them to provide some income for their families while balancing the demands of family life. And family life is uniquely demanding for military families with small children: </span><a href="https://www.militaryonesource.mil/data-research-and-statistics/survey-findings/spouse-voices/#:~:text=Spouse%20Employment%20*%2064%25%20of%20civilian%20spouses,average%20of%2019%20weeks%20looking%20for%20work."><span style="font-weight: 400">46% of active-duty spouses</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> have children under the age of six at home.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400">Flexibility is a vital characteristic of military family life, and work is no exception. We’re asked to adjust to living in new locations, spouses being back and forth on deployments, and for many, a new job with each move. Many military spouses struggle to find work at all, with an unemployment rate that’s nearly </span><a href="https://surface.syr.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1491&;context=ivmf&;_gl=1*2ag8aw*_gcl_au*ODc5MDc2MzQwLjE3NzY3OTQwOTg.*_ga*MTQ2NTM4NjkyNC4xNzc2Nzk0MDk4*_ga_QT13NN6N9S*czE3NzY3OTQwOTgkbzEkZzAkdDE3NzY3OTQxMDQkajU0JGwwJGgw*_ga_SRVN5YVLB5*czE3NzY3OTQwOTgkbzEkZzAkdDE3NzY3OTQwOTgkajYwJGwwJGgw"><span style="font-weight: 400">four times higher</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> than that of civilian spouses. But even with a similar </span><a href="https://surface.syr.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1491&;context=ivmf&;_gl=1*2ag8aw*_gcl_au*ODc5MDc2MzQwLjE3NzY3OTQwOTg.*_ga*MTQ2NTM4NjkyNC4xNzc2Nzk0MDk4*_ga_QT13NN6N9S*czE3NzY3OTQwOTgkbzEkZzAkdDE3NzY3OTQxMDQkajU0JGwwJGgw*_ga_SRVN5YVLB5*czE3NzY3OTQwOTgkbzEkZzAkdDE3NzY3OTQwOTgkajYwJGwwJGgw"><span style="font-weight: 400">overall labor force participation rate</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> to civilian spouses, military spouses earn much less than their counterparts. After all, career advancement is more difficult when you can’t stay at a company thanks to military relocations, and your career comes second to your spouse’s. As a consequence, military spouses, on average, earn approximately </span><a href="https://www.dol.gov/sites/dolgov/files/VETS/files/Military-Spouses-Fact-Sheet-2024-12-13.pdf"><span style="font-weight: 400">38% less</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> than their civilian counterparts.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400">This isn’t to say that we begrudge the service of our military members. We’re incredibly proud of their sacrifices, and are happy to make our own to support them. All families require sacrifices and compromise. But the military is a way of life that requires a full-family effort, and workplace flexibility lightens the load for employed spouses. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400">I’m proud of my husband, proud of his hard work and dedication to our family and our country. And I’m happy to hold things down at home, taking a large portion of responsibility when he’s deployed. But without the ability to work remotely and enjoy a flexible schedule, I’d never be working today. I would choose my family in a heartbeat, but women shouldn’t have to choose if they don’t want to. If the COVID-19 pandemic taught us anything, it’s that many jobs can be much more flexible than they’ve historically been. I’m incredibly grateful that I can continue to work while also caring for my children and keeping things running smoothly at home. Employers should recognize the gift they can give their workers (and help themselves by keeping good workers in the labor force) by allowing them flexibility.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400">This military appreciation month, take a moment to recognize the families that support our brave service members. We have the best military in the world, and we should be immensely proud of the many sacrifices made by these patriotic Americans. And behind every service member is a military family that’s making sacrifices right along with them.</span></p>
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<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400">Charlotte Whelan is the policy managing editor at Independent Women. </span></i></p>
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What Military Wives Quietly Carry While America Sleeps
